What will you do with all the success and money you are pursuing, if you don’t have anyone to share it with?
We all are social beings, we find our happiness in sharing our thoughts and opinions with others.
We like to talk about how our day went, what we have achieved, and where we failed, we love to talk about our miseries and also our successes.
All we need is a dedicated listener.
But you cannot be comfortable in speaking to just anybody who is ready to listen to you if you don’t know them personally.
You need a “personal listener”. Those few people in your life who would always give you their ears for as long as you want.
We want them to be understanding, no judgemental mindset, be empathetic, and just hug you tight when everything in your life is going out of the way.
We need strong relationships! And we know it.
But the problem comes when we are not able to strike the right balance between our career and relationships.
We take people for granted. We think they are not going anywhere so just let me focus on my goals, I’ll catch up with them later on.
That’s the biggest mistake we do.
Understand this! Except for your parents and close family(in most cases), all other relationships will leave you if you don’t give them your time.
People go where they are getting valued, nobody likes to be taken for granted.
Good relationships don’t ask for your money or gifts, all they need is your time, and some undivided attention to make them feel that you really value them.
If you don’t do it for a long period, you’ll lose people you never wanted to lose.
That said, we don’t have to give all our time to our relationships. They also have works to do, they don’t need you hanging around with them all the time.
Just half an hour a day, or even 10 mins of extreme attention can do the magic.
Also, you don’t have to give your time to just anyone who happens to be around.
Your time is extremely valuable, so spend it on valuable people.
We really don’t need 10 or 20 friends in our circle, just 3-4 people and we are done.
Can we give our time to these 3-4 people whom we never want to lose? Assuming the answer is yes, go and speak to them one by one each day, just for 10-20 mins, and your relationships will grow and become stronger than you ever imagined!
Why grow alone when you can grow together? 😉
That’s it folks!
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Let’s make our relationships stronger 🙂